How long have you been working as a celebrant?
Since March 2019 – although I did conduct a memorial service for my father back in 2017. That experience was the trigger to planning this career change. I completed Neil Dorward’s Training in Funeral Celebrancy course in October 2018 then, after working my notice, left the University of Dundee and started my new career.
Where have you worked?
I’ve now conducted funerals in Dundee, Perth, Kirkcaldy and at Parkgrove Crematorium in Friockheim (Angus). I also officiated at my cousin’s funeral in Aldershot in October 2019.
Were those all crematorium services?
No. The majority of funerals today are cremations but I have also officiated at graveside services. In those cases the main ceremony usually takes place in a funeral director’s service room or parlour.
What size of services have you conducted?
Every service is different of course. I’ve handled private services with only four immediate family members present to very large gatherings with standing room only.
Do you have a particular style?
It varies a great deal depending on circumstances. I have conducted funerals for young people who died suddenly as well as people in their 90s (and even 102) who had led a long life. In general I take my cue from what the family and friends want and I try to capture the essence of their loved one in what I write. And, whatever the circumstances, I try to conduct the ceremony with respect and dignity.
Are you religious?
Not in a conventional way (though I do try to follow a Buddhist approach to life) and I’m not a minister or a priest. But I’m not a Humanist either and I am very happy to include a prayer or a reading from the Bible or other scriptures if requested. Recently, I conducted a ceremony for a man of south east Asian heritage and we placed a small brass figure of the Buddha that had belonged to him in front of his coffin and lit candles during a moment of silent reflection.
Do you sort the music?
It depends. Sometimes the Funeral Director will do that. But I am always happy to help choose music and, where necessary, I can make a CD for the service or help source live music.
Do you have testimonials?
Families often get in touch after the service to express their feeling on how it went and that has always been a positive experience for me. Because of the nature of the work, I don’t want to publish any of those but the comments usually relate to:
How I work: “calm professionalism”
My eulogies: “your beautiful words”
The service: “your delivery was exceptional”…”great respect and dignity”
Which funeral directors do you work with?
I’ve built up good working relations with Co-op FuneralCare in Dundee, Perth and Cupar. I’ve also worked closely with James Ashton & Son in Dundee, Macgregors in St Andrews and James McEwan & Son in Perth. But I will work with any Funeral Director if asked, including in other parts of the country. For example, I recently worked with Ford Mears in Farnborough, Hampshire.
Do you hold professional insurance?
Yes, I have taken out a combined public liability / professional indemnity package designed for celebrants.
How can I find out more?
I am always happy to chat about any aspect of my work. Contact me here.